I started reading “How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind: Dealing with Your House’s Dirty Little Secrets” by Dana White. I gotta say that woman is totally my wife. It explains so much. Give it a look, or visit her blog “A Slob Comes Clean“.
Sometimes it is super hard to keep up with the positivity. Like exhausting hard. But if you keep putting your thoughts in order and correcting the bad ones it is so worth it and it does eventually start getting easier.